Staying connected with your children is precious, especially when you cannot always be there in person. Whether due to work commitments, relocation or other life changes, platforms like FaceTime, Zoom and Skype have become vital ways to maintain those meaningful parent-child bonds across any distance.
It is understandably frustrating when your ex-spouse creates barriers to these important virtual connections. While technical glitches happen and schedules sometimes change, you might notice concerning patterns. Does your ex frequently “forget” about scheduled calls? Are you often told the kids are “too busy” to talk? These repeated behaviors might be more than just accidents. They could be attempts to keep you from connecting with your children.
When might virtual visits be restricted?
While both parents generally have the right to reasonable communication with their children, there are occasions when virtual visits need adjustment. Children’s bedtime routines, homework time or other important activities might need consideration. Courts generally expect both parents to work together thoughtfully to make virtual communication possible while respecting these natural limitations.
Making virtual visits work for everyone
Here are some practical tips to help create successful virtual visits:
- Choose regular call times that fit everyone’s schedule
- Keep call length appropriate for your child’s age (15-30 minutes work well for little ones)
- Be mindful of household routines
- Keep a record of your calls and any missed connections
- Make sure your custody agreement includes clear virtual visitation guidelines
These suggestions can help build reliable and meaningful virtual time with your children.
Protecting your connection with your children
If you are struggling with virtual visits or need to modify your current arrangement, consulting with a family law attorney can help ensure these precious connections continue. Your relationship with your children matters, and there are legal ways to protect your right to stay connected through technology.
